A CPA Dreams Big, Does the Math and Makes It Happen
by Alecia Caine of Find Yourself in France
My dream has roots in my childhood. I fell in love with the French language the first time I heard it in class when one of the mothers came in to teach us.
I thought it was the most beautiful thing I’d ever heard and I had to know more. I discovered a country behind the language rich in culture, history, food, fashion, everything I loved and I became obsessed.
I started studying French when I was 12 and never stopped. I traveled there from the time I was 18 and always felt like I was coming back home when I landed in France.
I dreamed of a life there, but instead, I got married, had kids, got divorced and became a CPA. I put my own dream aside to raise my kids as a single mom.
I was never a traditional CPA, and it wasn’t long before I started my own business and taught women to go after their dreams.
An Empty Nest Makes Room for the Dream
When my children grew up and moved to college, it was time to think again about going after my own dream.
I wasn’t ready to up and move to France so I brought the essence of a French farmhouse to my home and started to raise chickens.
The joke was when the boys flew the coop, mom replaced them with a chicken coop.
I even got engaged to a French man because I wanted to live in France, but he lived in Boston, and at the time, that small detail didn’t matter because I rationalized Boston was closer to France than Ventura, CA!
For obvious reasons, the relationship didn’t last, but I did get a total immersion into French culture, became fluent in French and traveled there extensively those 3 years.
I also followed another passion and became a certified chocolatier and created a niche tour company called Find Yourself in France, to introduce women in the US to women in France for an exchange of culture, ideas and joie de vivre.
For two years now, I’ve brought ladies to Paris to find their unique style, and to the French countryside for a more authentic experience enjoying wine on a vineyard and artisan cheese on a local farm where you can meet the cow and the woman who made it.
My big goal is to live part time in France and part time in California. I’d like to combine all my skills, encouraging women to live their dream, introduce them to joie de vivre in France, touring Paris and the French countryside, tasting wines and artisan regional delicacies and also teaching chocolate and pastry classes in a farmhouse. So can you help me get there?
What questions do you have for Alecia about her business and how she’s grown it? I plan to continue the conversation with her in a future podcast…
I am SO there in spirit! I have nothing but admiration for women who find their way clear to living/working in France, even on a part-time basis – no easy task, bien sur.
Dear Annie,
Thanks for your comment. For so long, I hoped and dreamed of the life I wanted and I believed it just wasn’t possible because I had a long list of things I needed to accomplish in order to make it happen, like have a lot of money in the bank so I could finance my dream. Of course some control over money is necessary to achieve your dreams, but usually we use this as a block to really setting out and making it happen. Whatever your dream is its important to start living it now! Don’t wait for someday or until…it just won’t come. When you take some baby steps toward your dream, you begin to attract resources in the same proportion. Bigger steps attract bigger resources. I believe we are mainly kept back by our own fears and lack of self confidence. I’ve suffered many setbacks due to my own fears and lack, but something inside me rises up again and makes me take the very next step. I’m still not there yet, but every step is getting me closer. I encourage you to go toward your dream life whether its in living in France or something else. Do keep in touch and Happy New Year!
Congrats on finding a way to live your dream! One of the reasons I enjoy being a copywriter is that I can work from anywhere. I would love to join you on one of those trips to Paris one day soon!